Zerqa Abid: In the Pursuit of Sakinah

Khalil Wimes and Abdifatah Mohamud: Two Little Victims of One Big Crime, Child Abuse

Mon, 07 May 2012 16:54:00 GMT

Khalil & Abdifatah“Khalil was dead from head trauma March 19 when his parents, Tina Cuffie, 44, and Floyd Wimes [aka Latiff Hadi], 48, brought him to Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. His corpse weighed only 29 pounds and bore a sea of scars across his face and the rest of his body, according to police reports. Authorities believe Khalil suffered beatings at the hands of his parents for as long as two years, and he was photographed with obvious scarring at the same time the social worker was visiting him and his siblings in 2011.” ─ Reports Philadelphia Inquirer.

“On the night of April 17, Ali Mohamad Mohamud tied up his stepson Abdifatah Mohamud, stuffed a sock in his mouth, covered it with duct tape and then beat the boy to death, Buffalo, N.Y.,” police told ABC News affiliate WKBW.

“An autopsy showed that the fifth grader died after being hit more than 70 times with a rolling pin.” --- ABC News.

We as a community seriously need to do something about such parents who torture their kids in all sorts of ways in the name of discipline. Police and children services come later. Where are family members, neighbors and community members? Why is there nobody to stop them? This does not happen in just one night. Instead, such deadly incidents happen after several incidents of lesser severity. In this case, it is apparent that nobody stopped these brutal people at all.

Tags: Muslim Family Violence,Muslim Child Abuse,Muslim Child Molestation,Muslim Parenting,Muslim Community,Muslim abuse,Muslim Children Rights,Abdifatah Mohamud,Khalil Wimes

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Project Sakinah: 2011 Reflections and 2012 Plans for Stopping Domestic Violence.

Wed, 04 Jan 2012 06:26:00 GMT

As we enter into 2012, we reflect upon the past year with mixed feelings. On one hand, our hearts are heavy with the memory of Nazish Noorani and many others who have been victimized by their own spouses in 2011. On the other hand, the level of our community’s engagement with us, and with other efforts dedicated to stopping violence within our families over the course of the year gives us hope and encouragement to continue the struggle.

Our main focus during 2011 was on collaborating with existing organizations and upon launching our multi-faceted campaign. Here are our major achievements for 2011, along with future plans for 2012:

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Category: Domestic Abuse

Domestic Violence in Muslim Families: Aasiya Zubair to Nazish Noorani

Mon, 22 Aug 2011 12:39:00 GMT

As I write this post, it has been five days since the murder of Nazish Noorani, 27, a mother of two, in Boonton, NJ.

A week prior to her death, she texted her brother...

"I dont no wht to do…Cant talk to him cuz he abuse me than…He dosent wanna live with me…I dont no kids get scared of him sometimes…I m so tired of this…I dont no i m scared…someday u will find me dead but its cuz of kashi…he wants to kill me."

Unfortunately, regardless of her warning, she could not save herself. Her husband, Kashif Pervaiz, successfully plotted and killed her with the help of his girlfriend, Antoinette Stephen.

Tags: Muslim Domestic Violence,Muslim domestic abuse,Muslim Battered Women,Muslim Abusive Relationships,Muslim Abusive Marriage,Muslim wife beating,Muslim Community,Muslim Support,Muslim Help,Activism,Nazish Noorani,Kashif Pervaiz,Aasiya Zubair

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Category: Domestic Abuse

Do we have a Will to End Domestic Violence?

Wed, 26 Jan 2011 16:24:00 GMT

February 12, 2010, marked the first anniversary of the gruesome murder of general manager and co-founder of Bridges TV, Sister Aasiya Zubair Hassan. She was killed by her husband, Muzzammil Hassan, the other co-founder and CEO of Bridges TV.

Many of you know by reading my earlier posts on the topic that this particular murder had hit me and my family very hard. We felt the Zubair family’s pain directly, as we knew if we had not acted on time the dead victim could have been my first cousin, Sadia, instead of Aasiya. Sadia is Muzzammil’s ex-wife. We were thankful to Allah for saving Sadia’s life. At the same time, we were very sad for losing Sr. Aasiya at the hand of an established, known abuser. Since we personally knew many major players of the story, our reaction has been mixed with grief and anger. Grief for Aasiya’s children and her family. Anger toward the community and friends around the couple.

Tags: Muslim Domestic Violence,Muslim domestic abuse,Quran,Hadith,Prophet Mohammad,Muslim Battered Women,Muslim Abusive Relationships,Muslim Abusive Marriage,Daraba,Nushuz,Muslim wife beating,Muslim Community,Muslim women rights,Muslim Support,Muslim Help,Activism,Dar al Islam,Muzzammil Hassan,Aasiya Zubair,Enith Morillo

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Category: Domestic Abuse

VOICE TO ACTION: Muslims Against Domestic Violence

Sun, 21 Mar 2010 22:34:00 GMT

Did you know that one in every four women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime? 1

According to a carefully estimated guess by major Islamic social service organizations in North America, this statistic applies to the Muslim women too. An estimated 1.3 million women are victims of physical assault by an intimate partner each year 2. This number also includes thousands of Muslim women.

Yes, one in every four Muslim women. You must know some who are already abused.

I know many.

Nearly 17,000 people, mainly women, are killed each year by an intimate partner, according to the National Coalition of Domestic Violence, a nonprofit advocacy group based in Denver.

Tags: Muslim Domestic Violence,Muslim domestic abuse,Quran,Hadith,Prophet Mohammad,Muslim Battered Women,Muslim Abusive Relationships,Muslim Abusive Marriage,Daraba,Nushuz,Muslim wife beating,Muslim Community,Muslim Support,Muslim Help,Muslim women rights,Dar al Islam,Aasiya Zubair,Muzzammil Hassan

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Category: Domestic Abuse

Did We ever Bother to know Muzzammil?

Sun, 21 Mar 2010 21:37:00 GMT

Written by Zerqa Abid

Muzzammil Hassan, the owner and CEO of Bridges TV has been arrested for beheading his wife, Aasiya Zubair.

INNA LILLAHI WA INNA ILAIHI RAJAIUN, indeed everything belongs to Allah (God) and to Him we will return.

This is the news of the year that has once again damaged not only the Muslim image in American society, but it has also damaged our trust and the hope that we place in American Muslim leadership.

It’s been five days now that my family along with the rest of the community has been in shock. The fact that Muzzammil was married to my first cousin before marrying the victim still horrifies us. Ms. Zubair was his third wife. Both of his earlier wives filed divorce on the same grounds of severe domestic violence and abuses.

Tags: Muslim Domestic Violence,Muslim domestic abuse,Quran,Hadith,Prophet Mohammad,Muslim Battered Women,Muslim Abusive Relationships,Muslim Abusive Marriage,Daraba,Nushuz,Muslim wife beating,Muslim Community,Muslim Support,Muslim Help,Muslim women rights,Muzzamil Hassan,Aasiya Zubair

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