Loss of life
When an abuser finds out that a victim plans to leave them, or that the abuse is no longer secret, they may try to take full control of the situation. Sometimes they simply decide to kill the victim. It’s very important for victims to take full precautions using a safety plan.
Loss of home
Victims may need to leave their home abruptly in order to save their lives.
Loss of valuables
Unless a Personal Safety Plan is made and followed, it’s possible that victims may end up losing their valuables forever.
Loss of family and/or children
Speaking up about the abuse may lead to separation and divorce in cases of domestic violence. Legal custody of children may not be given to the victims by the court.
Loss of freedom
Sometimes, speaking up leads to physical fights, and victims end up committing violence in self-defense. They can be imprisoned if the Court decides to do so.
Serious injury
Fights can also lead to serious injuries and disability.
It is very important to follow a safety plan before taking any other action.
We feel it's your duty to help your friends or family members, but we want you to know what you're getting into is tough.
Getting involved puts pressure on you to support your friend.
This can mean dedicating a lot of time and energy to the situation. Know your own boundaries and abilities. What you discover from listening to your friend may weigh heavily on you. Make sure you have the support you need. Seek help from another trustworthy friend or professional if you need it.
Your friend/family member may get upset.
Taking a stand is never easy. You know your friend, so take the actions that are most comfortable for you both.
You might not see results right away.
These things take time and patience.
Loss of life
When an abuser finds out that a victim plans to leave, or that the abuse is no secret anymore, they may try to take full control of the situation. A fight may lead to a reaction from the victim causing the death of the abuser. The abuser may also decide to take his own life to escape other consequences.
Loss of home and valuables
The abuser may decide to leave their home abruptly in order to escape consequences.
Loss of family
Speaking up about an abusive situation may lead to separation and divorce. Legal custody of children may not be given to the abuser by the court.
Loss of freedom
Many abusers lose their freedom and end up in prison.
Serious injury
Fights can also lead to serious injuries and disability to abusers.
Loss of respect and reputation